I complain sometimes, but I’m trying not to.
When you complain about something, anything – your situation, your luck, your job, your boss, your finances, this process, that company – what exactly do you think is going to happen?
Do you think the world will stop and listen?
Do you think that everyone who hears you will put down their phone and rush to the rescue?
Do you think that, if you shout loud enough or complain hard enough, god, or some other mythical creature, will start to shape fate in your favour?
The only thing that happens when you complain is that you destroy the mood. You ruin the vibe for everyone in your vicinity. You make happy people less happy.
Nothing else changes.
So why would you want to do that?
Why not just shut your shit and let it go?
Do something about the things you can do something about and drop everything else.
It won’t kill you, will it?